As we began talking about Christmas Change in our home, my husband and I ran through a list of typical family traditions. Then we asked ourselves a few questions: Is this necessary? Does this point us to Christ? Does it cost money?
Somebody brought up the Christmas tree. We sat back and blinked at each other. The Christmas tree is steeped in tradition. But for the life of us, we couldn’t remember what it really meant. Every year, we’ve bought a live tree, costing us between 50 and 80 dollars. And every year it has died. Quickly.
The truth of the matter was, a Christmas tree wasn’t necessary. But we hated to take away something so special to our kids. So, we agreed that if we could give the kids a tree at no cost and if we could come up with a way to make it spiritually redeeming, we would get a tree.
The result? A 16 foot naked hardwood sitting in my living room.
The dark, naked wood points to the Cross. Each twig is a reminder that Christmas was only the beginning of our redemption story. That baby in a manger was destined for crucifixion. So we purposefully left a few branches bare. No amount of lights and ornaments can mask the stark truth of His death for our eternal life.
The tree, obtained from a nearby obliging forest, fits nicely into our Christmas tree stand, even though it’s only got about a three inch trunk. And you’d be surprised how much farther we could stretch our lights and ornaments without all those needles in the way. We didn’t spend a penny on lights this year, and yet somehow we had enough to cover every inch of our doubled-in-size tree.
I think it’s my favorite Christmas tree ever.
I love the “Charlie Brown-esque” feel it gives to our home. I love those few bare branches that speak of Jesus. I love the hilarity that ensued and the memories that were made when we hauled a 16 foot maple in the front door and tried to decorate it.
I love how it’s a tangible reminder to our children and anyone who enters our home that this year is different.
This year, we are stripping away the trappings and we’re keeping only the beautiful, only the meaningful. Then we’re giving it all away to those who need it more.
Before you dive into the Christmas season head on, take a moment with your family to stop and question everything. What are you doing this year to be intentional about seeing Christ in Christmas? How can you make old traditions new with a bit of frugal creativity? What can you change about this Christmas to give it genuine worth?
Just for fun, here’s a few other Christmas tree alternatives.
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First of all, that picture is beautiful. And the idea you had and how you painted the analogy is beautiful too.
I really really like this, I guess that’s what I’m saying
This is a great post! I love the idea of using a naked tree to point to Jesus. It is definitely counter-cultural and a way to teach your children about the reason for our celebration. Thanks, Lora Lynn. Oh, and great posts about the tree at your blog http://www.vitafamiliae.com/, also!
Now, to figure out how to shave my artificial tree naked… hmm…
Any suggestions?
We’re an artificial family here, too, Seth. I mean, at least where Christmas trees are concerned.
Lora Lynn – I love this so much. Such beautiful thoughts on a radical change. I am so inspired.
It really takes so much courage to change traditions, and make something all your own for what you believe in. I’m blown away by the beauty of it all – the idea and the actual tree! I peeked over at your blog and am so humbled.
I love how you have illustrated so beautifully HOW to change Christmas. You are right – this holiday is so steeped in tradition – yet much of it is done without thought. How special to create a brand new tradition colored with change and love.
Love, love, LOVE that idea! I almost wish I didn’t have a fake tree. Oh, what the heck – I might just go find a real bare one. That’s just fantastic. Thank you.
Lovely. The tree, the thoughts, and the direction you are taking your family.
Your tree becomes even more beautiful when I hear you write about it.
Interesting and informative. But will you write about this one more?
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i love this so much. i love how it points back to Jesus….beautiful. this is so inspiring.
I somehow dont agree with a few things, but its great anyways.